The Cooldown blog
Stories and reflections on running, connection, and finding your people

"How fast did you run?"
3-4 minutes
And other questions that reveal why running communities can feel unwelcoming
August 20, 2025
You're probably more likable than you think
2-3 minutes
What does science say about the "Liking Gap" and how it might matter
August 11, 2025
Your Strava cannot hear the birds
3-4 minutes
If your runs are starting to feel like work, like one more metric to track, one more performance, wanna change things up?
July 25th, 2025
The no BS, science-based guide on building friendships as an adult
3-4 minutes
We're human. Of course we want connection. But how do we make real, lasting friendships as adults?
July 22th, 2025
What happens when you run with someone faster or slower than you?
2-3 minutes
When can it help, when can it hinder? And what can you do to make the most of it?
July 20th, 2025